Why you shouldn’t call yourself an Atheist, and probably aren’t one

Firstly, this is about moral courtesy.

If asked your beliefs. If you choose to answer, anything that isn’t “what you believe” you might as well have given no answer at all.

“Atheist” isn’t what anyone believes, it’s what they don’t believe.

Secondly, western religion is not and was never the root of religious practice. The cultural practices of ethnic groups of people aren’t to be dismissed because “atheists” forgot sociology, anthropology, psychology, and animal behaviorism are legitimate sciences.

Thirdly, do not lift Christian/western belief above the religious practices of black, brown and indigenous peoples.

If you’re a rationalist, an empiricist, or non-religious, say so, but don’t invalidate the cultures of black, brown, and indigenous people with a title that gives deference to the religions of colonialism. I often identify as a rational skeptic in the realm of philosophy and debate.

Atheism as a title forwards theism as the only legitimate religious belief. It’s literally part of the title.

As a Christian I have no desire to see my personal beliefs lifted above :point_up_2: the cultures of the disadvantaged. And as a southern Christian I know a protestant sect when I see one. If you aren’t a Protestant be sure you’re not found feeding at too many of the same troughs as protestants. Hitchens and Harris are two of the more conspicuous people I can think of.

I love “The Atheist Experience” and the “Atheist Republic” they are useful names/forums because they address questions for western believers about who/how people in the western world live without WESTERN religion. Which is, that they’re sane normal people, not missing anything necessary from their lives. Not all birds sing and that’s just fine.

But to give public voice for those places on radio, or to the public, you can be sure that those people must hold certain positive beliefs to speak as a member of those places, and those beliefs should epitomize what they care for NOT what they aren’t. There is no Jack the Atheist Nihilist who just says “meh” on the Atheist Experience.

A title that doesn’t tell anyone about what YOU believe isn’t a good one.

On those exceedingly rare occasions when an acquaintance does not simply assume that I’m some sort of nominal Christian, I have never said, “I’m an atheist” but not because I believe that being the antithesis of a theist is somehow endorsing or promoting theism. It just tends to produce heat and not light. I will say something more general about my positive beliefs – in empathy, compassion, tolerance, kindness. Trying to keep it on-point.

I’ve had two instances where I’ve been asked point-blank if I’m an atheist and then I have replied in the affirmative. Anything else would be dishonest. One was my oldest living brother, who is the lone fundamentalist hold-out in the family, and his response was “that’s too bad” and then he dropped it. The other was with some random guys I was in a game of Rummy with, and it was prompted because one of the others there, a retired college professor, was a known atheist and they saw similarities in our presentation and thinking I suppose.

In practice it seldom comes up.

If you’re going to the places in this post then it’s fair to ask whether it’s fundamentally “forwarding theism” to allow most people to make default cultural assumptions about you. I do not attend church or engage in god-talk (although despite having left theism 3+ decades ago I could pass quite easily doing either), but I do not attempt to disabuse people of the general assumption that I’m roughly like them – cultural Christian, semi- or non-practicing or going along to get along with the spouse and others, etc.

Similarly, until I skipped a meeting of my men’s group to attend a local resistance protest, they had no idea how liberal my politics were. Was I “forwarding authoritarianism” up to that point?

Everyone has limited time and energy and decides what hills they want to die on, or not. IMO, it assumes way to much about all the actors to parse labels to this degree. When I go on Saturday morning to play cards, my objective is to play cards and have a nice social time, and the people who join me are almost all decent enough not to wear all their detailed beliefs on their shirtsleeve so they can argue about them.

And once again, we see a simplistic and fallacious homogenisation of the atheists here, by someone who obviously never bothered to find out what we actually think, before posturing as being in a position to tell us what we think.

I’ll start by telling you up front, and with the blunt honesty that is something of a trademark of mine, that your screed bears NO relation to my actual thoughts on the subject. Worse than that, your screed is such a malicious and feculent travesty of my well-known position here, that I’m strongly minded to tell you to shove it into the same foetid orifice you extracted it from.

Let’s deal with this item by item, shall we?

Item one. I was aware that there existed other religions than Christianity (however this is defined, given the 40,000+ sects all calling themselves “Christian”) long before your sperm met your egg. I was aware not only of the existence of Judaism and Islam, but Buddhism, Shintoism and a whole catalogue of indigenous faiths, courtesy of a proper education. That despite the manner in which the grammar school I attended here in the UK, was subject to the provisions of the 1944 Education Act, which mandated specifically Christian religious teaching and worship, and despite two of the staff being clerics - one a Catholic priest, the other a Presbyterian minister. My school still managed to maintain a studied neutrality even with this backdrop.

Item two. Thanks to that proper education, I learned that ALL of our religions are based upon mythologies, be they orally transmitted or written. Furthermore, I learned that the whole purpose of those mythologies, was to present a range of unsupported and frequently fantastic assertions about the world, as if those assertions constituted fact, and present those assertions in this manner by fiat.

Item three. This leads me onto my personal view of what atheism actually is based upon actual observational data. Atheism, in its rigorous formulation, is nothing more than proper suspicion of mythology fanboy assertions. This applies regardless of the mythology and the fanboys in question, and said suspicion is proper, because not one of the mythologies in question, ever presents anything other than blind, unsupported assertions. Indeed, a central rule of proper discourse, is that assertions possess the value “truth value unknown” until a proper test of those assertions is devised and conducted. As a corollary, untested and untestable assertions may be safely discarded on that basis. The above, if you’ve bothered to read this far, should be telling you that I’m an equal opportunity sceptic of mythological assertions.

Before you start launching into the usual lies peddled by mythology fanboys on this matter, don’t even think of going there. I’ve spent 15 years destroying those lies.

Item four. Living as I do in the UK, my atheism isn’t an issue. The majority of people in my circle regard religions as at best hilarious, at worst pernicious. According to the last census, there were 22½ million of us in this country, who share this basic view.

Item five. The only time my atheism becomes an issue, is when obnoxiously vocal and entitlement-riddled Americans gatecrash the discussions I engage in on other topics, parading their fulminating wilful ignorance and bigotry before a global public audience. For example, one forum I participate in, discussing evolutionary biology, is subject to a tsunami of dreck by an army of rectally self-inserted creationists, who think that their warped eisegesis dictates how reality behaves, regardless of how much reality pisses upon this psychotic delusion. The drivel they post frequently fails to meet basic standards of literacy, let alone conceptual coherence, but, as is typical of their ilk, they plough on regardless, pretending that their infantile clinging to literalist interpretations of Bronze Age mythology overrides Nobel calibre science.

Worse still, the same specimens from this demographic, who all claim to be “morally superior” because they believe in a cartoon magic man of their own invention, are not merely willing to lie through their teeth for their heresy, but obligated to do so, because that heresy is divorced from reality by a chasm the size of the Böotes Void. Indeed, the same was noted by Judge Jones at the Dover Trial, where the farce and fraud that is “intelligent design” was exposed as such - he noted that the piety of the creationists in the dock contrasted sharply with their perjury. The dark irony of seeing these people claiming to worship a god that issued a full-blown Commandment prohibiting lying, while violating that Commandment with every utterance, is not lost upon me.

Indeed, even if I were not already deeply suspicious of religious claim from numerous different quarters, the behaviour of American creationists has ensured once and for all, that I will regard their religion as venomous, dangerous garbage. That they regard themselves and their conduct as an advertisement for their infantile bibliolatry, merely demonstrates the level of delusion they entertain.

Item six. At this point, it should be obvious that my main combat has taken place with the aforementioned obnoxiously vocal and entitlement-riddled Americans, who outnumber every other religious demographic I’ve encountered by about 500 to 1, and that’s a conservative estimate. In my 15 years of dealing with relevant discoursive issues, I’ve encountered fewer than 20 Orthodox Jews who stepped up to the plate (most of whom were taking their cue from American creationists anyway), possibly 50 Muslims, just ONE Hindu creationist, and a smattering of New Age woo types. If I concentrate upon the most numerous, vocal and obnoxious enemy, do not be surprised.

Item seven. At this point, it’s time to provide the essential concept that underpins all of the above. Namely, that those of us who take the issue of religious belief or otherwise seriously, recognise that belief itself is utterly worthless as a source of genuine, substantive knowledge. Because, at bottom, belief as practised by mythology fanboys, consists of uncritical acceptance of unsupported assertions. See my remarks in Item three above, to understand why I regard this as ridiculous.

What those of us who take subjects seriously understand, is that an assertion is worthless, unless it has been properly tested, and via said proper test, found to be in accord with either observational reality or relevant formal deductive systems (subjective matters, of course, deserve a somewhat different treatment - I’m talking here about the purportedly factual). If your ‘arguments’ fail to meet this standard, they are discardable, because at this point we’re dealing with apologetics, which is nothing more than the fine art of pretending that made up shit mythology is validated by more made up shit. You have three guesses how much contempt I have for this.

Item eight. The above should be telling you much, about how I resent being lectured upon the conduct of discourse, by people who know nothing about me, who never bothered to ask me what my views are even at an elementary level, let alone in detail, and who obviously consider the usual duplicitous stereotypes to be applicable to me. Been there, done that, read the book, seen the movie, listened to the soundtrack and eaten the pie (that’s a Watership Down joke by the way).

In case you’re wondering, I take my discoursive cue in part from the lawyer who was overheard on the London Underground, regaling his long-suffering junior colleague with “and fourteenthly …”. I can provide evidence of my persistence if need be.

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Your point is well taken that in the US, atheism is outside the Overton Window in a way that it often isn’t elsewhere in the West. Typical believers in the US can’t have a rational discussion with an atheist (or about atheism for that matter) because atheism = [insert most horrific bogeyman of your in-group here] and that ends the discussion.

Hence, I presume, the OP’s contention that it’s morally discourteous to mention that you identify as an atheist. I suppose many such folks also find it gauche to mention that you are non-conforming to their sensibilities and beliefs in any way at all – sexual orientation, skin color, accent, national origin … which leads to public obscenities like the current US regime’s desire to “denaturalize” citizens whenever it feels like it, using entirely opaque critiera. If they have their way, heck, I could be denaturalized and shipped off to rot and die in Lower Slovbodia despite that my ancestors immigrated here from Luxembourg in the 1830s. Based, say, on the contents of this very post. “He’s an atheist!! gasp He condones homos! He says our policies are obscene! It says so right here in the Palantir database!”

Hm, I belatedly noticed that not only is it asserted that (1) I shouldn’t call myself an atheist, (2) it’s impolite to do so but also (3) I probably am not, in fact, an actual atheist.

WTAF?

Is this a manifestation of the common Christo-fascist / fundamentalist delusion that there are no actual atheists, just people strenuously claiming that they are?

If so, it’s beneath contempt. I have not believed in even one deity for over 30 years now. I am, therefore, definitionally, an atheist. What is so hard about this simple concept, I’ll never know.

I’ll start with just the title.

I shouldn’t call myself an atheist? Do you consider your instruction not to do so binding or even compelling? Actually, I’ll call myself whatever I like.

“…and probably aren’t one”. Okay, Ms/Mr-I’ve-Never-Met-You-But-I-Know-You-Better-Than-You-Know-You, just what single word would you suggest I use to indicate that I have no gods?

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Huh? What in the wide, wide world of sports is moral courtesy?

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This demonstrates a fundamental misunderstanding of anthropology/archaeology. Most religions are in fact rooted in mourning and communal culture. We can also see the correlation with animal behavior in the mourning that many, many animals have been directly observed mourning their dead.

Symbiotic and social relationships are roots of consciousness and if you care for the state of animals and people then let that be your title. Not a poke in the eye.

You still didn’t articulate a reason why your title should indicate the validity of western culture over those without privilege.

You’re obviously triggered by that point, take it as a sign that you should consider it.

I don’t need to address all of your assumptions, they are simply that.

We have democracy, and our very planet on the line here folks.

If you care to believe the right thing be the first one to consider the fundamental assumptions of how your beliefs present themselves.

If it matters that others honesty consider changing their mind, then demonstrate your openness to do so.

It really is a basic issue of the REALITY of the title. Consider the reasons in this other hypothetical case.

An example in the form of a conversation.

A:”What kind of work do you do?”
B:”I’m a painter.”
A: “What sort of paintings do you make?”
B: “Oh I don’t paint my own, I restore old paintings.”
A: “So you’re an art restorer?”
B: “No I consider myself a painter”
A: “Do you only paint when you restore art?”
B: “Yes”
A: “I understand that you paint, but you should really call yourself an art restorer.”

With this in mind consider whether these two statement are true of your beliefs.

“My Atheism is only a result of my rational understanding of the world.”

“It’s of no use to me if someone is an atheist if that belief along with their other viewpoints is not rooted in rational skepticism.”

If the point of taking on the title of “Atheist” is in fact really that you want to communicate your “Rational Skepticism“ then “Atheist” isn’t the correct title.

That is one of the reasons why most people aren’t atheists.

The other group, the indifferent, aren’t atheists, they’re “non-religious” the inclusive term for having no religion not just no WESTERN religion.

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You still didn’t articulate a reason why your title should indicate the validity of western culture over those without privilege.[/quote]

Your premise is wrong. Theism isn’t just about western religions. It’s about ANY religion that posits an entity that controls nature through unnatural means - and that includes both indigenous and native religions. If you have a religion that says that “The Great Spirit” controls the weather, that’s a form of theism - and I don’t believe that.

No, again you assert the dominance of western reasoning. It is the natural cultural behavior of native peoples, and you’re assertion that your identity is defined by western religion is racist.

I am not going to go the lengths of Callissea, entertaining tho’ he is.

Sir, you are spouting complete bollocks. You have no basis for your maunderings.

Regards, an atheist.

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He asserted no such thing. Quite the opposite.

Do we require that Aunicornists tell us what they DO believe in, in relation to unicorns?

Or Amermaidists?
Or ALoch Ness Monsterists?
Or Aboogeymanists?
Or ASanta Clausists?
Or Avampirists?
Or Awerewolfists?
Or Adragonists?
Or Azombieists?
Or Agoblinists?
Or Aleprechaunists?
Or Aminotaurists?
Or Adragonists?

Please demonstrate that your god, or any god exists or is even possible. Then, I think, you’ll have room to tell others that they should announce regarding their beliefs about… whatever is being suggested.

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Neither of those things are true for me.

I now consider theism incoherent and anti-rational, but I discarded it because it did not work as advertised on multiple levels and I could not hold to its tenets without engaging in hypocrisy. It is a lie based on a failed epistemology, whether it is or isn’t “Western” or “Eastern” or “indigenous” or “animistic” or “ancestor worship” or what have you.

As for your example conversation, I have no real idea what you’re on about. One either believes in one or more gods, or doesn’t. It has nothing to do with pretenses to be doing something that one isn’t actually doing. Or doing something that one claims not to be doing. [A]theism are labels for a single up or down issue, nothing more nor less. I am without [belief in] god(s). It is not specifically a Western (or Eastern, or whatever) belief about gods. It is about whether supernatural beings and realms are substantiatABLE, much less substantiated. I contend that they are not, as they are definitionally outside nature and not part of the set of things that are able to be sensed in any sort of intersubjective way, and so are completely indistinguishable from daydreaming.

Others are of course free to daydream. It just isn’t for me anymore. My life is far better this way. YMMV, etc.

I really don’t know where you’re trying to go with this. If you even have a destination.

Requiring people to announce what they believe exists in place of something that’s never yet been demonstrated to exist in the first place, or a version of that.

Or perhaps we’re about to be subject to a barrage of independently verifiable evidence for the reality of a god.

One must be triggered toward native openness after all, or something like that.

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I find myself confused.

Doubting the Abrahamic God’s existence is no different than doubting the existence of Zeus, Apollo, Thor, Vishnu, and/or Osiris.

I also doubt the existence of leprechauns, the Loch Ness monster, and Bigfoot.

How is this not giving an answer?

Please note that doubting the existence of something is not the same thing as making a positive claim that something doesn’t exist, as it is very difficult to “prove” a negative.

It would take a very high bar to make me believe in the Abrahamic God, as the Bible shows a lot of internal self-contradiction, and the Universe behaves as if it wasn’t intelligently designed.

Besides, if I choose to worship the Abrahamic God, then which sect do I choose? Each sect says every other sect is going to hell (with a few exceptions), so even if I choose to piously worship God tomorrow, I will probably end up in hell anyway, as the odds are overwhelmingly in favor of me choosing the wrong sect.

Atheism is the smart bet under these circumstances.

Please note that I never said that there is no God . . . I just claim that I’m not convinced of God’s existence. These are two distinctly different claims.

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Well, there appears to be just one thing to do: Whip up some extra special hate on native and indigenous gods and religion. That way they’ll know that we atheists don’t discriminate against their gods any worse than we discriminate against western gods. I’ll get right on that!!

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Oh this is going to be good … [/End sarcasm]

No it doesn’t. Pull yourself out of your rectal passage.

Again, wrong. Religions, and the mythologies accompanying them, were our first (and failed) attempt to develop an understanding of our surroundings, and failed because they all involved projecting our own capacity for intent thereupon, regardless of whether any “intent” of any sort was actually a part of reality. And guess what? He have ZERO evidence for any such “intent” being an integral part of reality. What we have, instead, is a vast body of evidence for unguided testable natural processes evolving over time, as documented in exquisite detail in several million peer reviewed scientific papers.

Of course, an integral part of that projection of intent, was an attempt to try and escape the reality of death, by inventing a so-called “afterlife”. The scenario that universally applies across religions being summarised as “do what the magic entities tell you, so that you can enter Candyland after you die, instead of being sent to Shitland”. Which then became an exercise in hijacking empathy, fairness and reciprocity to pretend that “morality” was a product of said magic entities, instead of the product of our biology. The subsequent manipulation of this hijacking by the duplicitous, to grant themselves an easy life at the expense of the rest of us, followed naturally.

Do tell us in what fantasy parallel universe, that an emotional curiosity about the death of fellow members of one’s species, validates any mythology?

Oh, and there’s a large body of research, informing us that non-human species are capable of ethical behaviour, despite knowing nothing about our mythologies and their associated magic entities.

They’re also the driver for the emergence of ethical behaviour in social species. Funny how the hijacking thereof by religion has led to large scale unethical behaviour, isn’t it?

In the case of people, I care about them to the extent of wanting to see them free themselves from dangerous delusions. Or did this elementary concept fly past you, during your exercise in venting more snark?

That’s because the entire question I consider irrelevant in the grand scheme. I’m concerned with what FACTS and proper deduction tell me, not some mythical cultural hegemony. Indeed, I regard a proper education with respect to mastering facts and proper deduction, to be a means of elevating the disadvantaged. But again, this elementary concept flew past you.

Oh look, it’s the tiresome “triggered” pseudo-response to any vigorous demolition of canards. I see this bullshit all the time from creationist, flat Earthers, anti-vax loons and other such dross. Which is a sign that you should reconsider your failed apologetics.

Bullshit. I’m in the business of presenting demonstrable fact. I leave “assumptions” to mythology fanboys. Get over yourself, and put your pomposity in the bin.

You think I’m unaware of this? Oh wait, I’ve devoted numerous column inches to the threat presented by likes of Trump and his swivel-eyed base, the threat presented by oligarchic capitalism, and the threat presented by violently intolerant fundamentalist religion. None of which you’ve manifestly aware of.

Once again, what part of “i’m not interested in beliefs” do you continue to fail to understand?

I’m interested in determining properly, which postulates are in accord with observational reality or rigorous deduction. A subject to which, again, I’ve devoted numerous column inches. Try finding out what I actually think, instead of pretending you know better about this than I do myself.

I don’t need to, I’ve already done this on several occasions.

And, once again, you appear to be unaware that there exist these entities known as FACTS, which place constraints upon which ideas are viable or not. I don’t give a flying fuck how much postmodernist guff you want to bring out at this point, those FACTS render said guff null and void. Indeed, it’s the refusal to face FACTS, that fuel many of the threats to democracy you claim above to be concerned about. You will find it useful to delve into this matter further.

Meanwhile, your attempt to redefine terms to suit your apologetic convenience, instead of asking if they correlate with reality, again speaks volumes, not least because I see this all the time from the usual suspects I’ve mentioned above.

Again, you’ve earned an F.

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I’m not sure that’s true, atheism is simply the lack or absence of belief in any deity or deities, it can’t, or at least shouldn’t be misconstrued as any wider comment.

I don’t think that’s necessarily true either, descriptors can be useful, but they are seldom perfect or infallible, that’s not how language and words work.