Do you realize the chaos and mayhem this (and other threads) would end up in if quoting was not allowed? Nobody would no longer understand who was replying to which message. I actually had a long pause from the old forum because of the dysfunctional quoting features. In any debate where the answers are supposed to be a rational discourse based on rational arguments addressing the text in question rather than one-liners in the form of “yes”, “no”, “LOL”, “me too!!11!!1!”, and “fuck off!”, having the ability to actually quote the text one reply to is essential. In the absence of textual quoting, one will need other, roundabout ways to establish the connection to the text being replied to, including paraphrasing the original content. This generates a lot of work, not only for the person replying, but it also requires a lot more work for the reader, since he/she then would have to understand from the context of the reply what is being replied to, and possibly even searching backwards in the thread to find the original text if the replier does not give an adequate summary of the non-quoted text.
There are other advantages to quoting whoever and whatever one replies to, but that is somewhat beside the point here, so I will leave that for later, if that would ever happen to become more relevant.
To your comment that verbalizes the thought that if I continue to quote you, you will stop responding, I have the following to say (see, I have already used more space paraphrasing you than doing the actual quoting): Go ahead. See if that stops me from quoting you again.
Further, you comment that if I want a reply from you I must abide by your request (see, again I use more space paraphrasing than quoting). That is not a request but an order, a command. You order me to stop quoting, and you threaten me with the silent treatment as punishment. Your statement further makes it appear that you seem to believe you have some kind of authority that you can use to scare me into saving a few bytes here and a few bytes there by not including the quoting tags and the actual text you wrote, and that I will be so scared to miss out of your comments that I will abide without hesitating, and come crawling back on my knees to beg for your forgiveness. But guess what, I’m not a five year old that you can scare into obeying by threatening me with the silent treatment.
Next, you ask if I see the paradox now. Then I reply that I don’t see a paradox here, only one whiney side that complains about a few extra bytes being used in quoting, generating orders of magnitude more text than necessary by refusing to accept that quoting is the accepted norm in this forum, and that it makes it much easier to follow the discussion, especially when the replies are more than one-liners.
Lastly, you state in a seemingly jovial tone that you would be more than happy to reply if I can stop being rude, and then you finish the sentence with a clause in the form of a rhetorical question of why you would do that. That last rhetorical question gives away your intention of not replying anyway, thereby revealing that your last sentence is a threat in disguise, wherein you again threaten me with the silent treatment.
In sum, I have seen people work themselves into a frenzy on form vs. content on this and other discussion forums, but none of them have been so enraged by a few extra bytes in a quote. In fact, your whining about a few extra bytes is a throwback to Usenet of the early 1990ies, before the invention of the Word Wide Web, when transmission rates on the Internet was measured in kilobytes per second and the high-speed intranets on university campuses was measured in the lower part of single-digit megabits per second, so saving bytes here and there actually had a potentially real impact when large amounts of data were being transferred. But that was thirty years ago, and both transmission speeds and storage space have increased, while cost per storage space unit have decreased. So that is hardly a valid argument anymore.
By the way, which version do you think would be easier for the general reader to comprehend, this version of paraphrasing your concerns, or an alternative version where I quoted your actual words?
Edit: minor typo/grammar edits, as well as moving one paragraph to a more logical place.
Edit 2: I just couldn’t resist: