A co dependent relationship is dysfunctional by definition. Was in one for years before I got sober.
But yes, most of what you post here is bullshit imo
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Aren’t we clever?
This isn’t a drug addiction related co-dependency.
It’s an “I had a fucked up child hood and could really use someone that can empathize with me in order to go on living in this world” kind of codependency. In other words, I care for her deeply and she cares for me deeply. As much as both of us want to self destruct - we love each other to much to leave the other one with any such loss.
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha , And now that you know that, you have decided to go ahead and have a fucked up adult life as well. (How Special.)
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I once read, I can’t remember where or when, that we begin to grow up when we are able to forgive our parents.
Imo people who blame their childhood tend to go on to blame circumstances, or an ex partner, or the cat. Such people often wear a sign saying “please don’t kick me” or in Ratty’s case “please kick me”
.The result is the same; a professional victim. Heaven forfend they actually take responsibility for the consequences of their actions. 
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Why?..
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Smug Bastard! There is a reason theists don’t like you! It probably has nothing to do with what is going on here; however, I just felt like pointing that out!
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Go sit on a banana. It was either this or wasting away on the streets.
I work a full time job; I have a mortgage; I spend quality time with my wife and I’m happy.
What do you have? A swanky university position in Singapore? Huh? Huh? 
Monkey man …
I’m a fucking powerhouse of a Viking born into the 21st century. I don’t need or want pity from anyone.
However. Four things that I as a schizophrenic struggle with. Four very tedious self talk examples.
“I can’t do this anymore”
“I fucking hate my life”
“Where will I find the strength”
“I’m going to fucking kill my self”
Four affirmations fed to me by the Evil One.
In response - I have four replies and physical coping methods that deal with all four issues. If I don’t use them on a daily basis - I have a shitty day.
Now, I’m batshit crazy and I know the voices in my head aren’t me. But how many of YOU hear those same four things in your so called NORMAL self talk?
Actually - from what I’ve gathered in our relationship, he has very little of “suffering”. And the suffering I’ve introduced has brought him much pleasure.
Hahahaha … aren’t you the special one. Only YOU deal with this in a brain auditory way instead of like an “intrusive thought”…
LOL… yes. swanky!!! I am most certainly a swanky sort of character. Everyone knows! (That was a poo fling dripping with sarcasm, just in case you missed it.) I suppose, among my fellow primates that have not yet exited the rain forest or figured out the intricacies of a keyboard it may seem that way; however, the fact that I actually had spicy fish head soup for lunch, begs to differ.
I will never fault a man for earning a wage. You can spend your money any way you like. Have a mortgage. It’s perfectly okay with me. Have a pathological relationship. Not a problem for me. You just live your life. exactly the way you want to live it. It’s your life after all. And you only get to have one.
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Youz swanky to me baabbbeeeee!!! 
fuck! How else could we afford that spicy soup 
… or take walks… your swank, babe, is what makes me laugh … that butt sway back and forth when you walk… mmmm 
@rat_spit Who are what is this “Evil One” you speak of? Provide evidence for the existence and reality of this so-called “Evil One”, or else, I will conclude that you are just imagining this so-called “Evil One”.
@rat_spit I’m sure you can easily fit in with the #MAGA crowd, as well as QAnon, somewhere. 
Awwww Fuck! It’s Ratty! The Evil One is an apriori and self-evident. We have all accepted that at this point. It is a part of his delusion. His inner rat.
Yeah…the dude is out of it. Not sure if it is actually schizophrenia, or does that dude do some drugs and stuff, but he is a pain to engage with. I’m going to ignore him.
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Don’t forget condescending, I’m actually better at that . I guess you left it out because it’s so common among thinking atheists when confronted by one of the unthinking class.
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Yeah…they act like they are better than others, because they have been granted some sort of “special knowledge” by the God they worship and believe in. That type of hubris frankly makes me ill.
Rat tat tat tat tat…