Is that not the point of debate? To politely discuss the terms of the argument in such a way that an agreement between the two is settled on? Perhaps you think you’ve “won” the debate? There are still extremely salient points which I do not agree with you on.
For example, you seem to be saying that a moral system based on values of hatred and intolerance is in no way comparatively inferior or superior to a moral system based on values of love and compassion.
Because:
A) they’re chosen subjectively
B) the terms are interchangeable
I do not agree with this and find it counterintuitive to common sense.
For example, we seem to have no issue agreeing on what “hatred” and “intolerance” mean. And yet the words “love” and “compassion” (according to you) May lead (at times) to acts of violence.
I find that incompatible with my experience of all four values. You seem to be arguing (forgive the colloquialism) that it’s like comparing apples and oranges. Whereas I am saying it’s like comparing a rotten apple to a ripe one.
You’re comparing a mythical creature to a feeling of overwhelming love? Seems a bit absurd doesn’t it?
It’s a feeling which people can identify and agree upon. Is that sufficient for you?
No. There are types of paternal love which allow parents to also beat their children and there are types of paternal love which do not allow parents to beat their children. Two different types of love. It’s incorrect to label them under the same name.
Well. I’ve come to my senses and I am now of the opinion that reward and punishment are relative.
I’m moving the discussion forward, if you don’t mind.
Who decides what rewards or punishments get doled out. Is it not those in positions of power?
If you cannot predict with any certainty that one group of values will lead to better social outcomes than another, then there is no point of labelling them “moral”.
“Moral - Adjective
holding or manifesting high principles for proper conduct.”
And yet you refuse to pass judgment on actions based on hatred and cruelty vs love and compassion? You think that because doing so is a subjective process there is no higher validity to it?
Good. Well, let’s move on to reward and Punishment. How are those consequences determined in a given society. Who writes the laws? How? And to what end? Is it the king who chops off the hands of a thief? Or the despot who executes a whole group of people based on the colour of their skin?
Fine. Out of interest … what points of nihilism seem demonstrably correct to you? Be honest. I don’t really care. I think in my heart I’m a nihilist with a conscience.
Better than anyone who thinks they can choose whatever set of moral values they want and get away with whatever actions they want without facing consequences doled out by a power and authority greater than their own.
Despite the lavash liberties associated with doing “whatever the fuck you want cause you feel like it” - there are entities in the world who may think otherwise and do have the power to convince you of as much.
Arbitrary, relative, or not … we put people in positions of power so that violence is rewarded with punishment.
And yet you refuse to pass judgment on moral systems based on hatred and intolerance? Despite the fact that you are demonstrating an understanding that they lead to the decay of society, you refuse to label them as “inferior”? I find that bewildering …
What about the definition of love via Jeezuz or the Buddha? They are not “most” people. Does the definition of a rare meaning not count because “most” people can’t agree on what it is?
Fair enough. You can have your cake and it eat too, I suppose.