Waco and David's Polygamy?

[Cognostic]

@Whitefire13

Damn. Based on the information I had at the time, I always made the decision that was best (risk weighed).

This is such a wonderful statement. Everyone at all points in time, always make, the decision that seems best at that point in time. There is always a pay off of some sort that makes the risk or decision worth it. People with the most amazing problems will often have those problems as a direct result of decisions they have made that make perfect sense in the lives they are living.

Crazy is when you keep making the same decisions even though they are no longer working. A child who throws a temper tantrum to get what he wants on a supermarket floor, is a bit on the crazy side, but we pitty the poor mom and dad and hope things work out for them. A 42 year old man or woman doing the very same behavior needs a check up from the neck up. Something is fundamentally wrong here, and it is fundamentally wrong, even though it may make perfect sense to them at this point and time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBlek7PDIrM

[MrDawn]

@boomer47

These days I’m no longer interested in a relationship

I’m just glad I’m in a relationship that involves a lot of sex. I spent 7 years, which was a majority of my marriage being in a sexless relationship after I had my son in 2012. My ex wife didn’t even want me sexually. We probably had sex 4 times out of the entire year. And no, we weren’t sleeping in the same bedroom together anymore. Looking back the issues I had in that marriage was bullshit. I should have called it a long time ago.

[boomer47]

@Sheldon

Yes, it’s almost 2 years to the day, since I had a wife and left for work. I haven’t seen her since. The pain and shock diminishes, but other emotions remain.

For me it was 30 years on the12 of April. The pain of such loss never goes away completely. One just learns to live with it. Am still unable to forgive either of us.