Christianity is generally pretty prominent and pervasive in many countries, including my own.
NZ was heavily influenced by the religious beliefs of the British colonisers back in the day, hence we officially celebrate Christmas and Easter as national holidays. Some laws have had Christian influence over the years e.g. anti abortion laws which as NZ becomes more and more secular are slowly being eroded to a more inclusive set of laws. Yay!
Anyway, in that context, I feel it makes sense to try to understand the other side. Especially since its such a large group. I have been very guilty in the past of being really bewildered, confuddled, and having a very negative view of the mindset of religious people. But I am trying really hard to be gracious and to try and see their side of the story, even though I’ll never believe it, I am trying hard to understand it.
It is difficult to go to a Christian forum and discuss stuff, because so much is against the rules. Questioning the bible is often seen as heretical.
What I don’t want to do is to have a strawman, almost trollish view of the bible and then challenge Christians on how they can believe this stuff. What I do want to do is to understand their perspective. Like, LISTEN, rather than to get them with Gotcha’s. However, I find it difficult to ask questions of Christians in a way that isn’t going to immediately get them upset, or on the backfoot. Perhaps I simply lack the social skills or emotional intelligence needed to carefully navigate this topic with them. IDK. In the recent past I’ve tried “conversing” with AI (ChatGPT, Gemini) but that is ultimately frustrating because I get lots of praise and lots of echo chamber stuff coming back at me. They profile who they think I am, and then give me answers they think I’ll be delighted with.
Anyway. I find reading the Bible to be very difficult for many reasons:
- The preachy-ness of it is extremely off putting
- The Childishness of it, makes it feel dumb. “God created light and it was good”
- The absurdity to it is often insulting
- The contradictory-ness of it. God of the bible seems to be an authoritarian monster.
- The brutality of it. God is often slaughtering people, or commanding his people to slaughter others
- It’s misogynistic
- The logic is really weird. e.g. Eve gained knowledge of good and evil and so God decided to punish all her female descendants for all of time.
- Well the list goes on and on….
Christians of course believe god to be good, and the bible to be profound. I wonder how long it took them to be able to read the bible and not have the thoughts that I have about it? Does it takes years of having people try to explain it to them in order to overcome their intuitive thoughts?