According to his friends, my dad had a âhard warâ
Royal Australian Airforce, Lancasters, reconnaissance .He spent time in North Africa, England, and India, plus Canada, although I donât know what he did there.
Dad and each of his friends, without exception had PTSD. Dad was not diagnosed until 1989.
My father died in 2006 at 87. A bit before then, and since, all of his friends have died.
Itâs hard for me to empathise with anonymous others. So today, but more so on ANZAC DAY (April. 25) I remember my father and his mates, for sacrificing their youth and for the courage they needed each day⌠.
Most Aussies of a certain age know the verse which begins âThey shall not grow oldâ
For the Fallen
BY LAURENCE BINYON
With proud thanksgiving, a mother for her children,
England mourns for her dead across the sea.
Flesh of her flesh they were, spirit of her spirit,
Fallen in the cause of the free.
Solemn the drums thrill; Death august and royal
Sings sorrow up into immortal spheres,
There is music in the midst of desolation
And a glory that shines upon our tears.
They went with songs to the battle, they were young,
Straight of limb, true of eye, steady and aglow.
They were staunch to the end against odds uncounted;
They fell with their faces to the foe.
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They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.
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They mingle not with their laughing comrades again;
They sit no more at familiar tables of home;
They have no lot in our labour of the day-time;
They sleep beyond Englandâs foam.
But where our desires are and our hopes profound,
Felt as a well-spring that is hidden from sight,
To the innermost heart of their own land they are known
As the stars are known to the Night;
As the stars that shall be bright when we are dust,
Moving in marches upon the heavenly plain;
As the stars that are starry in the time of our darkness,
To the end, to the end, they remain.