And BTW @Drew
There is NO world without some form of “injustice” (lol)! Spend your life focused on it. Could care less.
Childhoods filled with “unfairness” throughout the world. Grow up! Nothing “fixes” this. There is no “if only”… there is “what is”. Deal.
My kids are growing up just fine even though their dad withholds child maintenance. They still get access because one has nothing to do with the other.
Why does he withhold? Because his attention is in his newer relationship and re-starting a family with her - that takes money.
However being a capable parent, I care for the kids and am doing my best to hold him responsible for his share of responsibility. Can not force it.
So people will make choices YOU don’t like. Big whoop. How the fuck does it affect your life aside from you having it as a topic for discussion and “judgement”?