This is where I latch on with a difficult question for theists. If my dearest loved one went to hell and I went to heaven, how could I be happy?
The only alternate explanation is that
- god either created a golum/robot that mimics my lost love. Thus this god is deceitful and a liar
- the rules for access to heaven are not as stated (for example, there is no hell). Reference the liar
- god wipes my mind of any memories, thus leading directly into the question of free will
or … - there is no god