I worked as a bartender to put myself through university. We had a live band 7 nights a week and a dance floor. It was a popular chain restaurant / dinner house and we were the second busiest location in the chain. The place was a meat market.
You would not believe the slime balls that went home with the girls night after night after night. All it takes is a good rap. In fact, it was the stupid, uneducated, drooling idiots, that got most of the action. Morons that could not think their way out of a paper sack who had their brains in their dicks. These are the guys getting laid regularly. I kid you not.
They don’t give a shit about the women they approach. They have no personal investment in getting turned down. A woman who turns them down is just a stuck up bitch and this guy is on to the next target. This guy will go home with a different girl every night.
Remember those IQ tests? Remember that score of 100? Remember 100 is the Mean? Mode, and Median? Half the population has an IQ below 100. They just aren’t that smart. So while you are thinking, “I would like to meet someone nice.” The hamster brain is just thinking, “fuck.”
It is not hard to manipulate people if that is what you want to do. Advertisers do it. Sales people do it. The Clergy does it. Elementary school teachers do it.