I don’t think language should be sugarcoated at all. People who can’t handle hearing certain words or phrases need to accept the reality that the world isn’t always the comfy little bed that they want it to be.
Censoring words and speech is the equivalent of hiding under the bed or burying your head under the pillows. Just because you try your hardest to ignore and pretend that something isn’t, doesn’t mean it’s not there. This is why we have a generation of people who are triggered by everything and have conniption fits about everything. Get over it.