I utterly love your choice of words, and I agree with you.
And yes, the religious hypocrisy interferes with patient care. I’ve been excoriated because I treat the partner of a gay or lesbian patient like a spouse, under the theory that a paramedic should be nonjudgmental . . . and I’m often told that I “lack common sense.”
As an example, see news story below:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://legacy.lambdalegal.org/in-court/cases/langbehn-v-jackson-memorial&ved=2ahUKEwjChrXrrOWCAxVcRzABHVwICIcQFnoECBkQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3wwgWfenryWJLZHyL7k9Go
In summary, a lesbian couple was together for 18 years, and they had several children. During a family vacation to Florida, Lisa Pond (one of the partners) had an artery burst deep in her brain, and ended up on life support at Jackson Memorial Hospital (where I often delivered patients, and did clinical hours for school).
The hospital would not let the lesbian partner visit because “Florida is an anti-gay state,” and it’s against policy. This is despite the partner furnishing paperwork for a durable power of attorney.
So, this woman died alone without a final visit from her partner and/or her children because Florida is an anti-gay state.
I was beyond angry when I heard about it, as I’ve seen shit like this all the time.
On one occasion, I argue that–possibly–as many as 11 people died because of this garbage. I ran a 911 call on a man who had a horrible motorcycle accident with bad head injuries. He was on life support, and the hospital refused to allow the partner to visit, as this patient’s relatives prohibited it.
Well . . . it turns out that the partner had durable power of attorney, and he was so angry that he–in a form of misplaced retaliation combined with overwhelming grief–denied permission for the hospital to harvest his partner’s organs and tissues for transplant.
And this probably cost lots of lives, as 1 brain dead person on life support can save up to 11 or 12 people, and usually less than 10% of people who need transplants actually get them.
Things like this are what has made me so antagonistic toward organized religion despite having many Jewish beliefs.
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