Marriage has of course evolved, and is evolving, if it works out that’s great, but if it doesn’t it is a financial contract you entered into with a very different person. How many people get proper financial advice before getting married, I am guessing not many.
It’s right that it is evolving from the patriarchal bs religions have peddled for millennia, but perhaps people need more support and advice on what to expect and why, just a thought.