“So, what if God is real? What if the bible is really the word of God? Are we all, or most of us, really going to hell? What if they are right and we are wrong?”
I understand your concerns and fears, but I don’t share them.
Do good and be a good person (in however you define “good”) to the best of your ability simply for it’s own sake and not out of fear of an imaginary being.
If God doesn’t exist, then you lose nothing.
If God exists, then he will give you a pass for non-belief and let you into Paradise if He is reasonable.
If God is unreasonable, then we’re all screwed anyway and all of the religious belief doesn’t make a difference.
So . . . be a good person to the best of your ability and you should be fine even if you don’t believe in God.
This is what I call the “Reverse Pasqal’s Wager.”