Indeed. Or if one follows The Tao, nothing.
What’s better. To warn a child about fire or allow it to receive a small burn? I was warned, but still just HAD to touch the wood stove. I was two. Even then I wanted to know.
I think there’s a limit to the degree we can or should protect others from themselves.
I also think the effectiveness of ‘constructive criticism’ is moot as a general practice…